Nursery Fun!

While we were "matched" with our previous birth mom we sure had a lot of fun doing some of the preliminary work on our nursery.  I do have to say though that it can be a bit hard and emotional to decorate and design a nursery when we don't know the timing or the gender of the baby that will be coming into our lives.  So we have designed it fairly neutral at this point and will leave the details and final decorating to happen when our baby comes home with us.  If we have a girl I am going girl crazy.  Pink curtains and so on.  If it's a boy, oh it will be baby manly.  Hopefully I have chosen the basic colors that can be easily added to later.

The first thing we did before we painted was pray over the nursery and pick out scripture verses that we feel is important in our family and child's life.  Promises, prayers and so on.  Hard to tell in this picture but we just wrote with pencil.  We had worship music playing and just had a sweet time together as husband and wife praying over our future child.

 

Then we got to painting.  We chose a blue/green color for the walls in the main room and a beautiful gray color for the inside of the closet.  We had removed the closet doors a long time ago and had a built in office in that space.  I think I will still leave the closet doors off and when I know the gender of the baby will use pretty curtains to hang around the closet.

 

Our crib came in the mail.  HA!  So funny.  I came home from work and it was sitting on our porch.  Such a fun and exciting delivery.  Here we are posing by it.  Just because we are goobers.  :)  The bright yellow bandaid on my arm was the whooping cough vaccinne I just got.  Look how responsible and prepared future parents we are.  He he.

 

Our next project was re-doing a $60 craigslist dresser into the changing table.  So fun!!  This one just thrilled us to death how it turned out.  Couldn't have dreamed it would look this good.  I did end up having a moment of insanity and went ahead and painted the changing pad frame pink because at the time we were expecting a baby girl.  But this can easily be changed if we do not have a girl.

 

Absolutely IN LOVE with this recliner/glider.  I bought it off of Walmart.com after reading many reviews about it.  Scary to order something large like this online having never touched it, but I am happy to report this is the best purchase we have made so far.  It is SUPER comfortable and very soft.  And I love the neutral color of it.  Will go with everything.  The shade you see hanging on the window is from SelectBlinds.com.  They are blackout shades and were fairly inexpensive because I got them at 30% off.  This is my favorite area in the house to sit.

 

 

I will post more pictures as I do more things.  As you can see nothing is hanging on the walls, I have no decoratins or curtains.  But that just leaves more fun to come once we finally have our little baby home.

Twists and Turns

The past 4 months have been crazy for us.  On June 15th we received a phone call from a birth mom who was very interested in us for potentially adopting her baby girl.  She was due on October 2nd.  We had many good conversations and officially "matched" with her a few weeks later.  The term "matching" in adoption world means that she and us committed to each other to move forward in adopting her baby.  We were taken down off of our adoption agency's website and were no longer able to be viewed by other potential birth mom's.  We met with her in person and all of us came up with a contact agreement of how often we would all see each other after the baby was born.  This was all very exciting to us and we immediately came home and started preparing our little one's bedroom.  Could not believe we were finally at this point. 

The next few months have been busy with preparations.  We have had so much fun doing all of the things first time parents do.  We started watching videos on how to care for a newborn, we got our whooping cough vaccines, started buying a few little girl dresses and clothes and spent time with family and friends who were equally as excited to meet our sweet little baby girl.

The baby was finally born on October 7th early in the morning.  We got the news a few hours later that our birth mom had changed her mind and would not be placing.  Wow!  Such a heartbreak for us.  Even though we knew this was a very real possibility for us the news was still hard to take.  We had the car packed and ready to go to the hospital at any moment. 

But God was taking care of us that day.  All day long He was showing us His love through the things we read, a sermon we watched and the friends and family who visited, texted and emailed us their words of encouragement.  We know even more than we knew before that God has His timing picked out for us and our sweet little baby.  It WILL happen.  Our time will come to finally parent a little life.  While it can be so stinkin hard to wait and be patient I know without a doubt that I don't want this to happen a moment sooner than God has ordained. 

Our prayers continue to go out to the birth mom and her beautiful little baby that was just born.  We invested 4 months into praying for them and developed a deep love.  We know we were in their lives for a reason.  We may never know that reason but we don't need to know.  God does.